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Friday, August 23, 2013

Before we left we were asked to write something for the blog about why were going on the Uganda mission trip. At that time we weren’t able to put our thoughts into words. We had very little time and too much that needed to be done before we were to leave, so writing has waited until now.
We felt that we were being called to go, but we weren’t sure why. Now I know why. The letters from our kids in Uganda are not very informative as too what their lives are like. They are more like form letters and leave many questions unanswered. Their letters don’t let us get to know them like they are family members, and we desired to know them and their families better. There was only one way to get to know them, go as we were being called.

We sponsor 4 children in Uganda, 3 in Kachungwa and 1 who attends Alex and Faith’s church in Luzira. I want to tell you about them and what we experienced.
 Starting with those in Kachungwa:
 Apolo, he is in primary school level 6 and has now finished his final exams. He lives on a little knoll about 200 meters from the church. His home is in a traditional family circle cluster, it is made of sticks and mud with a sheet metal roof. The first view I had of it was like I have seen in a movie.  I was awe struck! It was such a beautiful setting. Down in a little draw on the other side of the knoll was some tall grass with his family’s goats happily eating. We went into his home where they had woven straw mats on the floor and they had us sit on one of the benches they had. All of the family members that were there came to us one at a time and shook our hands, the girls all bowed or kneeled in front of us, it was a very humbling thing to sit there and receive this honor from them. His father died several years ago. They are so very grateful for our sponsoring Apolo because they don’t have a cash income to pay for his schooling. They live off of the land. Apolo’s standing at his school is near the top of his class, he has a dream of becoming a doctor. We hope that he is able to archive his goal. Some of the Christmas and birthday gift money we have sent to him he has used to buy goats, and other items of need.

The goats provide meat and milk, and when his herd becomes big enough he will be able to sell a few for a little cash income. This picture is a part of his extended family.
 
 
 Elinah, Lives a few miles away near the heart of the community in the valley and walks to school daily, she lives with a brother and sister-in-law her parents are both dead. She is in P7 at school and has missed a lot of school this year because of Malaria, because of that her grades are lower than she would like. Without our sponsorship she wouldn’t be able to go to
school. I wish that our schedule hadn’t been overfilled this year and had allowed us to visit with her family at their home and to learn more about them and see her recently purchased goat; I deeply regret that we just ran out of time. She is a shy sweet girl that I wish we knew better. We will just have to go again in Feb of 2015 and spend more time with our families, especially hers.
 
 Peninah is the youngest of the 4  we sponsor. She is in kindergarten. We have recently learned that 2 of her older siblings are sponsored by the Harvey’s.  Christian Lycan with us sponsored a family business for them several years ago. Now we have seen the results of sponsoring the family business it allowed her father to go back and finish high school. The business money was used to purchase 4 acres of land, pay some community members to help clear the brush that was on most of it and plant multiple inter-planted crops of Irish potatoes, “ground nuts,” a form of peanut, and casaba. The potatoes have now been harvested with part of them feeding the family, part has been used for the 2nd crop that has been planted this year and most of the potatoes were sold. The money from the potatoes was enough for her father to buy more land from his brother. Her father is known to many of us as Pastor Paul, a volunteer pastor at Kachungwa’s out-reach church at Milembe. The ground nuts have been harvested and were stored in their home ready to sell, and the casaba will be harvested in a few more months. The business is self sustaining and growing. It not only supports their family but helps others in the community as well.
 









 



Our 4th child is located in Luzira which is on the outskirts of Kampala her name is Linda. Her name is the only one that we can pronounce correctly, the other 3 are pronounced with a Uganda pronunciation with an accent on the first syllable.

Linda, is 13 years old and is a very bright and talented young lady, she attends Alex and Faiths church and has lunch at their house on some Sundays. Her parents have both died and she lives with step or is it step-step parents in one of the slum areas outside of Kampala. Her step mother recently had a baby of her own and had been away from home for a long time to take care of her own mother at a village that is a long distance away.  Linda is in grade P5 at Murchsion Bay primary school and is dreaming of becoming a doctor. From what I saw at church I would call her a socialite. Without our sponsorship she would not be in school and I’m not sure where she would be living. Faith took us to Linda’s home, before getting there we purchased some rice, beans, sugar, salt and soap as a gift, as we did for the other families. When we arrived at Linda’s home no one was there, she didn’t know we were coming we waited awhile and talked to one of her friends, as we were leaving we met her as she came down the path carrying a neighbors baby. We left there to go to Alex’s revival meeting together. We observed that 10 meters from where she lived was an African version of a “Bar” and 30 meters up the path was another one. We also noticed that several of the men that hung out around there showed a little bit too much interest in her she just ignored them, but we don’t like it!!! It’s little wonder why she doesn’t stay there a lot of the time. Later in the afternoon at the revival we got word that her step mother had arrived at the church which was a few blocks away. We walked with Linda to the church and walked back together to the revival with her mother, we had a chance to talk and take some pictures, and she stayed for around an hour before catching a “Taxi” for the 2 mile trip to home. About an hour later Linda showed a “book” that she had made with an old piece of newspaper for a cover. Isaac Williams and I looked at it in wonder and awe. When we got toward the back of book she put her hand over the page that we had started to look at, so we closed it up and handed it back to her and thanked her for letting us see it. Later she gave it to Geri, who thought it was just a piece of newspaper and folded it in half to look at later. When I found out that she hadn’t opened it and read it I showed Geri what was in it. You will get a chance to read it for yourself in an attached PDF file. I encourage you to do so! Grab your tissues first. Part way through the book you will notice where we started to sponsor her. You will notice a change. What she writes about in the start of the book is what she sees around her all the time.

 After we returned home Alex sent us a message saying that that day that we spent with her was probably the best day of her life. We haven’t stopped thinking about the kids and families there, and how we have had such an effect on their lives and others around them. By going to Uganda we now have a personal knowledge of these people; they are very much like family now. They are no longer just a picture of one of their children, we are family. We have contacted Faith and with Linda’s help they are going to help us pick another child to help.
Before leaving home we were told about some of our sponsors that haven’t received a letter in over a year. I talked to the folks at ARM while we were there about this. The answer is: During the rainy seasons the roads are not passable because of the mud. Sometimes they don’t have contact with the community for several months at a time because of the distance, roads and conditions. Some of the families are considered mobile that is they will move away for several months and then they will move back. When ARM finds out that a family has been gone for 3 months then they will try to find out where they went for the next 3 months. Letters are written 3 to 4 times a year and with one of these mobile families it is possible to go a year without getting a letter. At the present  from the time a letter is written to when we receive it 4 months may have lapsed. ARM is aware of this problem and is trying to make changes to the processes. If you are in the situation of not receiving a letter for this long of a time, please don’t just stop sponsoring the child, go to Renee and ask her to contact ARM to find out why. I think the number of children that are supported is around 8000, it’s a big job for just a few people to track.


Gary and Geri Dunfee


 

 

 






 




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